Monday

girls.

okay so first i wanna say thanks you to the six girls who commented my last post. all of you told me exactly what i needed to hear, which leads me to this post and that i guess i want to highlight the difference between telling something to boys, and telling the same thing to a girl because i actually think its really interesting. like, guys generally have no idea what to say when we talk about, well, anything? and i moreso noticed this now that i've been dating tyron for 10 months (naw!) and like, í'll talk to him about something and he really has no idea what to say - even though he really wants to help he'll usually like, panic for a bit then do something to make me laugh. like today we were cuddling in his bed and i was upset because the father of this baby at church wont even recognise that it's his kid and i was upset because like how could you not want to have everything to do with this such a tiny, tiny bundle of perfect love and.. well whatever, and after he complained heaps because i wouldnt tell him what was wrong, i told him and he like, said nothing. and then i turned around and he had a green and silver battery sitting on his left eye and he robotically exclaimed "I AM TRITO-TON!" and cracked me up. guys are good at being guys. and how much they understand or comprehend what youre saying really doesnt reflect and has nothing to do with how much they love you or even if they love you or not. most of the time they genuinely just dont get it. ladies - dont expect to much of them. update your blog instead and let us girls deal with it. :)

9 comments:

  1. This is so very true, that's why I never go to my boyfriend for help, because I know its a lost cause lol.

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  2. Soo true. i genuinely think girls are more open-minded than guys.. :)
    xx

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  3. that is so extremely pinpointing perfect.

    i know exactly what you mean and i always try to remember to stay calm when they don't respond with caring words! LOLOL

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  4. the thing about guys, is they are not complicated[unless you get one of the very few drama queens]. they know what they feel and they dont get too deep into things [like i said unless you get one of the very few drama queens/over emotional guys out there] where as we as girls do. we over think everything its in our nature. and thats not a bad thing. most guys dont know how to handle our emotions because they dont deal with theirs the same way we deal with ours. im not sure if this is making any sense. but i think you get the jist from reading your post =) chin up darlin!

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  5. Oh, I love your blog. So great the way you write and express everything!
    I like the advise of letting girls deal with the problems hahaha

    xoxo
    P.S:Follow you!

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  6. hahaha sooo true<3
    I've found the support I needed from girls all over the world through this place:)
    including you:)

    you can gimme ur email and I will send u my adress:)THAT POSTCARD IDEA MADE ME GO AWWWWWWW!!!! IN FRONT OF MY LAPTOP hahahaha

    xx

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  7. Lol so friggin true :)
    LOve the rings too :P

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  8. wow, i love those rings! thanks so much for the sweet comment on my blog. really enjoying yours. :)

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i love all your comments ♥
oh, & i reply to all of them btw :)